by Vivian Oberling | Feb 7, 2026 | Communication, Relationships
Getting engaged is thrilling. You’re choosing your partner, celebrating your commitment, and envisioning the life you’ll build together. But engagement isn’t just about planning the wedding—it’s also a chance to prepare for the marriage itself: learning how to...
by Vivian Oberling | Feb 6, 2026 | Communication, Relationships
As we grow up, we’re absorbing ideas about marriage from everywhere—our parents/caregivers, romantic comedies, friends, Instagram feeds, and our community’s culture. By the time we get to the point where marriage becomes an option, we’ve all built a picture in our...
by Vivian Oberling | Jan 23, 2026 | Relationships
Every couple goes through seasons where they feel in sync with no effort, and others when that closeness feels harder to access. Sometimes it’s the slow creep of daily stressors (work deadlines, parenting, finances… need I say more?) that leaves you running on...
by Vivian Oberling | Jan 22, 2026 | Relationships
Emotional validation is the heartbeat of strong relationships. It’s what makes us feel seen, heard, and understood by the person who matters most. Without it, even small conversations can leave partners feeling dismissed or disconnected. With it, couples build trust,...
by Vivian Oberling | Jan 5, 2026 | Relationships
Picture this: one partner gets offered a dream job across the country, while the other has deep roots in their current city. Or one decides to take a leap into entrepreneurship, meaning long hours and uncertain paychecks. Suddenly, career choices don’t feel individual...
by Vivian Oberling | Jan 3, 2026 | Relationships
Emotional intelligence (EI) (the ability to perceive, understand, manage, and use emotions) isn’t just a buzzword; it’s one of the foundational wiring that helps any relationship thrive. In romantic partnerships, emotional intelligence is that invisible glue...
