by Vivian Oberling | Oct 23, 2025 | Relationships
You’re not fighting about money—and that’s a good thing. In fact, you and your partner are in a great place overall. Maybe you’re just starting out and want to be intentional. Or maybe you’ve noticed some subtle differences—how you each think about spending, saving,...
by Vivian Oberling | Oct 19, 2025 | Communication, Relationships
Couples plan for a lot—careers, kids, vacations, even retirement accounts. You might talk about where to live, how to split expenses, whether to sign a prenup, or if it makes sense to get a dog before having a baby. But one thing most couples don’t plan for? Illness....
by Vivian Oberling | Oct 18, 2025 | Communication, Relationships
A major move can instantly crank up the stress in anyone’s life. Routines disappear, decisions pile up, and money seems to vanish overnight. Having a partner in it with you can be a saving grace (two heads are often better than one, right?), but it can also add its...
by Vivian Oberling | Oct 17, 2025 | Communication, Relationships
Grief doesn’t just impact the person experiencing the loss—it often touches those connected to them. And when your partner is the one grieving, it can be hard to know how to help. Do you give them space? Try to cheer them up? Bring it up? Leave it alone? Supporting a...
by Vivian Oberling | Oct 9, 2025 | marriage, Relationships
Marriage often has a polarizing effect; either people are very vocal about their fear of marriage, while others paint it as a “happily ever after.” The truth, as most things do, lives in that messy middle ground. Marriage raises some degree of fear in most people....
by Vivian Oberling | Oct 8, 2025 | Finances, Relationships
Whether you’re just starting or you’ve been together for years, having open, honest conversations about your life goals isn’t just a smart move—it’s the foundation for long-term emotional and practical alignment. These conversations can feel awkward. Vulnerable....
