by Vivian Oberling | Oct 19, 2025 | Communication, Relationships
Couples plan for a lot—careers, kids, vacations, even retirement accounts. You might talk about where to live, how to split expenses, whether to sign a prenup, or if it makes sense to get a dog before having a baby. But one thing most couples don’t plan for? Illness....
by Vivian Oberling | Oct 18, 2025 | Communication, Relationships
A major move can instantly crank up the stress in anyone’s life. Routines disappear, decisions pile up, and money seems to vanish overnight. Having a partner in it with you can be a saving grace (two heads are often better than one, right?), but it can also add its...
by Vivian Oberling | Oct 17, 2025 | Communication, Relationships
Grief doesn’t just impact the person experiencing the loss—it often touches those connected to them. And when your partner is the one grieving, it can be hard to know how to help. Do you give them space? Try to cheer them up? Bring it up? Leave it alone? Supporting a...
by Vivian Oberling | Oct 2, 2025 | Communication, Relationships
We’ve all been there. One minute, you’re trying to talk through something that’s bothering you, and the next, voices are raised, defenses go up, and suddenly it’s not about the original issue. Now it’s about how you said it. Or what they didn’t say. Or the tone....
by Vivian Oberling | Oct 1, 2025 | Communication
There’s a certain kind of loneliness that doesn’t come from being alone—it comes from being with someone you love, and still feeling like you’re on your own. For many people in long-term relationships, they’ve experienced this at one point or another. That moment of...
by Vivian Oberling | Sep 30, 2025 | Communication, Relationships
Let’s start here: Needing therapy doesn’t mean your relationship is broken. In fact, it often means you care enough to fix what’s not working before it snowballs. But how do you know when it’s time to bring in a third party? What’s “normal couple stuff” vs. something...
