by Vivian Oberling | Aug 9, 2025 | Relationships
Trust is often held up as the gold standard in relationships—something every couple is supposed to have and every therapist urges partners to rebuild. But what does trust actually mean in a relationship? Is it about fidelity? Honesty? Being a best friend? In reality,...
by Vivian Oberling | Aug 8, 2025 | Relationships
Ever found yourself snapping at your partner after a long day at work, even if they didn’t do anything wrong? Or maybe you’ve drifted apart lately—not because of a big conflict, but because work just takes everything out of you. If this sounds familiar, you’re not...
by Vivian Oberling | Aug 3, 2025 | Communication, Relationships
Every couple has that one topic they avoid. Maybe it’s money, a comment about an ex, or a tricky dynamic with in-laws. These aren’t just awkward conversations—they’re emotional minefields. Left unaddressed, these hidden triggers can quietly chip away at even the...
by Vivian Oberling | Aug 3, 2025 | Relationships
It’s easy to get swept up in the flurry of wedding planning—finding the perfect venue, deciding between peonies or dahlias, picking the right playlist for the reception. But beneath all the aesthetics and event logistics, an important question may get lost: Are you...
by Vivian Oberling | Aug 2, 2025 | Finances, Relationships
Money is one of the most common flashpoints in relationships. In fact, studies consistently show that financial conflict is a leading predictor of divorce. But what happens when partners are not just disagreeing about how to spend, but fundamentally wired differently...
by Vivian Oberling | Aug 1, 2025 | Relationships
We’ve all heard the phrase: “The past is in the past.” It’s a comforting mantra, but doesn’t always hold up in real life. And you don’t have to be a psychologist to understand that childhood trauma can follow someone into adulthood, especially within our most intimate...
