by Vivian Oberling | Mar 5, 2026 | Communication, Relationships
You get engaged, the champagne is popped, and suddenly—everyone has advice and expectations. Your mom assumes you’ll have a big church wedding, while your dad is already envisioning a five-tier cake. Your best friend insists on being maid of honor (despite being...
by Vivian Oberling | Mar 4, 2026 | Postnup
In the United States, the word postnup still raises eyebrows. Prenups still get the same treatment, but they’re often met with a little less suspicion, given that they get plenty of attention—thanks to movies and celebrity divorces. But postnups, well, most couples...
by Vivian Oberling | Mar 3, 2026 | Wedding
You’re engaged! Soak in that post-proposal high. Because someone, if they haven’t already, may have started to ask you questions that just put your stress into hyperdrive. You know, ones like, ‘When is the wedding?’ Do you know what your colors will be?...
by Vivian Oberling | Mar 2, 2026 | Therapy
Couples today are more open than ever to therapy, and that’s a great thing. Seeking help is no longer whispered about—it’s seen as a sign of effort, maturity, and care for the relationship. However, with that openness sometimes comes a subtle misconception that...
by Vivian Oberling | Mar 1, 2026 | Finances, Postnup
When most people hear the word postnup, they picture a last-ditch attempt to save a crumbling marriage. But that’s only part of the story. A postnuptial agreement—essentially a prenuptial agreement created after the wedding—can be a powerful tool for shaping not just...
