How To Get A Prenup Thrown Out

Jan 7, 2024 | Clauses, Prenuptial Agreements

Did you know that even the most carefully crafted prenup can be challenged in court? The truth is, no contract is guaranteed to hold up in court, regardless of whether a lawyer is involved or how “ironclad” you believe it to be. Instead, the aim should be to enhance the likelihood of validity and enforcement by adhering to state laws and avoiding violating public policy. Prenuptial agreements or “prenups” are contracts that are designed to protect individuals’ assets and outline the distribution of property in the event of a divorce. However, in a divorce, one party may decide they want to challenge the validity and enforceability of the prenup; in other words, they may ask a family court to “throw out” the prenup and apply state law instead. This article delves into the intricacies of challenging prenups and explores the various ways to do so.

Grounds for challenging a prenup

Challenging a prenup is a legal process that involves presenting grounds for its invalidation to a court. It’s no easy feat to challenge a prenup; it costs money and takes time. Nevertheless, here are common grounds that exist to challenge a prenup:

  • Lack of Financial Disclosure: Intentionally or accidentally hiding assets or debts could invalidate a prenup. Note: Some states allow you to waive financial disclosure if done correctly according to state law.
  • Duress or Coercion: The agreement cannot be signed under force, threat, or undue pressure. Courts consider timing, emotional manipulation, sophistication of parties, lack of legal representation, financial disparity, immigration status, and other factors when reviewing these claims.
  • Failure to Meet State Requirements: If the prenup lacks formal elements like signatures, witnesses, or notarization (required in some states), it may be invalid and thrown out.
  • Unconscionability: Terms that “shock the conscience” of the court (i.e., are extremely one-sided or unfair) may be thrown out, depending on state law.
  • Alimony Waiver Would Lead to Public Assistance: Many states won’t enforce alimony waivers if it means a spouse relying on government aid.
  • State-specific reasons: Some states have unique rules that are not commonly seen in other states. For instance, in California, legal representation is required to modify alimony in a prenup. (See Cal. Fam. Code § 1612). Another example is in Colorado. Any waiver of rights requires legal representation OR extremely specific language in the agreement. (Colo. Rev. Stat. § 14-2-309(3)). 
  • Illegal or Unenforceable Clauses: Prenups cannot dictate child custody or support as these are matters of public policy.
  • Ambiguous language: If a prenup is confusing, contradictory, or unclear, a court may not understand how to proceed with the prenup and throw it out altogether.

 

Real-life example: Celeb prenup partially thrown out for ambiguous language 

Country music star Kelsea Ballerini’s divorce highlights the importance of clear prenuptial agreements. While a prenup existed, its ambiguous wording regarding alimony led to partially throwing out one of its clauses.

The Challenge: Ballerini faced conflicting interpretations of the alimony clause in her prenup.

The Choice: Due to unclear language, she had to choose between giving up half her house or potentially entering lengthy alimony hearings.

The Takeaway: This case emphasizes the importance of well-defined, non-conflicting prenup clauses to avoid misunderstandings during divorce.

Real-life example: When coercion can invalidate a prenup

Let’s take a look at a real case. In the case of Bauer v. Bauer, an Oregon court determined that a prenup was signed under coercion.

  • What Happened: A prenup was thrown out by the court because the wife was pressured to sign it without adequate time, legal advice, and/or information about her husband’s finances.
  • The Court’s Decision: The court determined that based on the combination of these three circumstances (not enough time, not lawyer, and no proper financial disclosure), it declared that the wife had unfair pressure to sign the agreement, making the prenup agreement unenforceable.

Key Takeaways:

  • Timing is Crucial: Presenting a prenup too close to the wedding can be seen as unfair.
  • Independent Counsel: Both partners should consider their own lawyers to ensure they understand their rights. However, note that this is not a requirement for a valid prenup in OR; it’s just a factor that may be taken into consideration, like in Bauer v. Bauer.
  • Financial Disclosure: Hiding assets makes it impossible to make informed decisions in a prenup.
  • Circumstances as a whole are considered: All of the above three situations together created an unfair situation, but one of them alone may not have been enough.

 

Real-life example: Prenup thrown out for unconscionability 

“Unconscionable” is a legal term that describes an agreement so one-sided or grossly unfair that a court may refuse to enforce it. It quite literally “shocks the conscience” of the court. State laws define this specifically. Let’s look at a real-life Indiana case that addressed this issue, in Justus v. Justus:

  • The Prenup: A prenup promised the wife $500,000 in alimony, plus $500 per week during the divorce. Note that the prenup was signed when the husband was worth millions.
  • Change in Circumstances: By the time of divorce, his wealth had significantly decreased from $31 million to $300,000.
  • Court’s Decision: The prenup was deemed unconscionable due to the drastic financial shift. It was considered grossly unfair to require the husband to pay the wife $500,000 in alimony when he only had $300,000.

Key Takeaway: Prenups can be invalidated if unforeseen changes make the original terms grossly unfair (i.e., unconscionable) at the time of divorce, depending on your state’s laws.

Seek out legal advice if you want to get your prenup thrown out

Challenging a prenuptial agreement is a complex legal matter that requires professional guidance. Consulting with an experienced family law attorney is an important first step to understanding the legal implications and potential success of such a challenge. (I.e., do you actually have a chance of getting your prenup thrown out or not). Even if you have a low chance of getting your prenup thrown out, a lawyer may assist you with the alternatives to challenging a prenup, such as mediation and negotiations with your partner. 

Getting a prenup thrown out is rare but possible!

To sum it up, understanding the grounds for unenforceability is crucial if you want to understand how to get a prenup thrown out.

There are several ways to challenge a prenup and get it successfully deemed unenforceable–improper financial disclosure, duress/coercion, state formalities, unconscionability, alimony clause would require public assistance, terms against public policy, and/or state-specific requirements.

“As long as a prenup is entered into following the proper legal procedures, the courts will look at a prenup as a binding contract between two people entering a marriage. There are a few rare cases of a prenup being held to be not enforceable when proper disclosures may not have been made, a party signing the prenup did not have the opportunity to consult with an attorney, or if other legal procedures have not been followed. Otherwise, financial terms agreed upon between two individuals will most likely be held to be valid and enforceable.” – Attorney Raymond Hekmat

Takeaway: It is fairly difficult to challenge and successfully get a prenup thrown out nowadays, as many states favor a couple’s right to contract with one another. 

 

Frequently Asked Questions (FAQs) about getting a prenup thrown out

Q: Is getting a prenup thrown out common?

A: While there is no specific data showing how many prenups are thrown out a year since prenups are not public record, we believe it is not super common to challenge a prenup because there are only a handful of grounds to challenge them on; it is expensive and time-consuming to do, and courts generally favor prenups as a policy. We also spoke with California Attorney Raymond Hekmat, who agreed that getting a prenup thrown out is rare!

 

Q: Is it difficult to challenge a prenup? 

A: Yes, it is relatively difficult to challenge a prenup for the same reasons as above. It is expensive; there are only certain grounds on which you can challenge a prenup, and courts tend to favor prenups. 

 

Q: Are there alternatives to challenging a prenuptial agreement in court?

A: The alternative would be mediation with your spouse and/or negotiating the terms. For example, if you want to get the prenup thrown out because you don’t think it’s fair, you can first try mediation and/or negotiation to try to come to new terms that you feel are fair.

 

Q: How long does the process of challenging a prenuptial agreement usually take?

A: Going through the legal system to get a prenup successfully thrown out can take months or even years to complete, depending on the specifics of the case and the court’s schedule.

You are writing your life story. Get on the same page with a prenup. For love that lasts a lifetime, preparation is key. Safeguard your shared tomorrows, starting today.
All content provided on this website or blog is for informational purposes only on an “AS-IS” basis without warranty of any kind. HelloPrenup, Inc. (“HelloPrenup”) makes no representations or warranties as to the accuracy or completeness of any information on this website or blog or otherwise. HelloPrenup will not be liable for any errors or omissions in this information nor any use of, reliance on, or availability of the website, blog or this information. These terms and conditions of use are subject to change at any time by HelloPrenup and without notice. HelloPrenup provides a platform for contract related self-help for informational purposes only, subject to these disclaimers. The information provided by HelloPrenup along with the content on our website related to legal matters, financial matters, and mental health matters (“Information”) is provided for your private use and consideration and does not constitute financial, medical, or legal advice. We do not review any information you (or others) provide us for financial, medical, or legal accuracy or sufficiency, draw legal, medical, or financial conclusions, provide opinions about your selection of forms, or apply the law to the facts of your situation. If you need financial, medical, or legal advice for a specific problem or issue, you should consult with a licensed attorney, healthcare provider, or financial expert. Neither HelloPrenup nor any information provided by HelloPrenup is a substitute for financial, medical, or legal advice from a qualified attorney, doctor, or financial expert licensed to practice in an appropriate jurisdiction.

0 Comments

Recent Posts

What is the Defense of Marriage Act (DOMA)?

The Defense of Marriage Act (DOMA) was a controversial federal law passed in 1996 that defined marriage as a union between one man and one woman, barring same-sex couples from federal benefits and preventing states from recognizing same-sex marriages performed...

Can You Get Married Online?

You order takeout, stream your favorite shows, and maybe even shop for groceries online these days. But what about tying the knot? In our technologically advanced world, it's natural to wonder if exchanging vows can be done with a few clicks too. The answer is YES –...

Ready to join the thousands of couples completing their prenup?