Prenups Are the Gift That Keep on Giving

Dec 25, 2023 | Communication, Wedding

Merry Christmas and Happy Holidays! As the holiday season envelopes us in gifts, warmth, and gratitude, it’s an opportune moment to extend our appreciation to a topic that we love (shocker, right?)—the prenuptial agreement. Widely regarded as a practical and forward-thinking choice, prenups are indeed the gift that keeps on giving. This article is all about appreciation for the prenup, or as we like to call it, the gift that keeps on giving. Below, we talk about seven ways prenups continue to benefit you for years to come. 


1. Financial harmony and peace of mind

The holiday season brings about joy but also the stress of finances. For all the newlyweds out there navigating their first holiday season together, we see you–we know financial decisions can be particularly challenging when you are also planning for a wedding and a future life together. Prenuptial agreements can act as a roadmap to you and your partners’ finances both separately and together, creating financial harmony and peace of mind for everyone involved. The simple act of having a prenup can alleviate some tensions around finances for newlyweds. For example, one way a prenup can create financial harmony in a married couple is by parsing out what expenses and budgets from a joint bank account! 


2. Relationship boundaries and clarity

Clarity in expectations for one another is critical for any successful relationship. Prenuptial agreements act as a roadmap, outlining the financial expectations and even lifestyle expectations each partner has for the marriage. This not only includes the division of assets but also extends to considerations such as expenses and budgets during the marriage, career paths, bearing children, inheritances, gifts, pets, retirement, and much more. By addressing these aspects beforehand, couples can navigate their shared financial journey with confidence and a shared understanding.


3. Protecting individual goals and creating shared ones

Every individual brings a unique set of dreams and aspirations into a marriage. Prenuptial agreements act as a guardian, ensuring that individual goals are not compromised, and both parties can continue to pursue their personal ambitions with support and understanding. In addition, while both parties can keep their separate dreams alive, they can also create a shared vision together that fits in with each person’s individual goals. For example, let’s say one person really wants to be a stay-at-home parent and the other really wants to be an entrepreneur. Together, the couple wants to retire at 50. A prenup can help carve out the pathways for a couple to meet all three of these goals. 


4. Transparency and communication 

Open communication is one of the greatest gifts a couple can give each other. Prenuptial agreements foster transparency by requiring couples to discuss their financial expectations, responsibilities, and long-term plans. This open dialogue contributes to a deeper understanding of each other’s values and strengthens the marital bond. For example, there is a part of the prenup process known as financial disclosure. This process legally requires both parties to share their finances with one another. This may be the first time this happens (sharing income, assets, and debt amounts). This may be uncomfortable but it is so important for transparency purposes when two people are merging their lives together. Not only that, but it’s a legal requirement! 


5. Fostering trust 

Let’s face it, prenups are a legal document, but what people fail to understand is that they’re not just a legal document. Prenups are also laying a foundation for a marriage that is rooted in trust, communication, and boundaries. The process of getting a prenup facilitates communication, provides a platform to create a shared future vision together, setting boundaries, and learning about one another. For example, does one person want to be a stay-at-home parent? How about retirement? What does that look like for each person? These are just some of the questions that will need to be discussed during the process and simultaneously helps build trust along the way. 


6. Creating a sense of future predictability

Life is inherently unpredictable, and acknowledging this reality is just plain logical. Prenuptial agreements provide a practical framework for handling unforeseen events, offering a sense of security in the face of life’s uncertainties. Prenups can offer stability for your financial future (who gets what), for budgeting and financial planning during the marriage, for insurance plans during the marriage, and much more. Overall, prenups are simply a great way to put things in writing and give yourself a sense of predictability in an unpredictable world.


7. Protection for children from another marriage 

Your prenup can serve as a supplement to your estate plans and ensure that even after you pass, your children or other heirs are protected in any scenario. (Note: a prenup is not a will and does not act as a replacement for a will). While not the most romantic thing to think about (dying, that is), it’s a fact of life and prenups keep on giving, even after you pass on. They can protect you even after you’re long gone. How? You can include clauses in your agreement that ensure your assets go according to your estate plans and aren’t automatically passed to your spouse.

8. Don’t forget about Santa Paws (i.e., protecting your pets with a prenup)

Keep your fluffy companions cozy and cared for! Make sure Fluffy is snug as a bug by specifying ownership and financial responsibility in your prenup for your pet in case of a separation. This gives pet owners peace of mind and acknowledges that, let’s face it, stuff happens, and you want to make sure your pets stay with their rightful owner. Some people go as far as including pet visitation schedules in their prenups!


Happy holidays and remember that prenups are the gift that keeps on giving!

This holiday season, be grateful for delicious food, a cozy home, love, family, your future spouse, and, of course, prenups–the gift that keeps on giving. Far from being a cold legal document, it’s a warm embrace of love, understanding, and a shared commitment to a future filled with financial security and mutual respect. It truly continues to provide value for many years to come after getting married, from protecting you financially to protecting your children. So raise a glass to prenups, the unsung heroes that contribute to the longevity and strength of marital unions.

You are writing your life story. Get on the same page with a prenup. For love that lasts a lifetime, preparation is key. Safeguard your shared tomorrows, starting today.
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